The Rules of Effective Conversation:
Conversations are supposed to be fun. They involve personal interactions between two or more people about something of interest. But many people worry about having conversations. They are concerned that they won’t be able to keep the conversation going, or about what they will say. Keeping a conversation going is something of an art, and one which many of us now seem to lack. This article explains how you can learn this ‘dying art’, and have constructive and enjoyable conversations with others. 1. Conversation is a Two-Way Street: The first and most important rule of conversation is that it is not all about you, but it’s not all about the other person either. A monologue, in either direction, is not conversation. Try to achieve a balance between talking and listening in any conversation. This is where social media makes life difficult. We’re used to broadcasting our views, and then responding if others comment. That can feel like the start of a conversation but, when yo...